What are goals? What’s the difference between a goal and a resolution?
A goal is something you’re working toward, something you want. But a resolution can be any kind of change you plan on implementing in your life. I’m going to be honest here and tell you that I’m not very good at resolutions. I did make one last year, and I think I did pretty well. My resolution was to stop procrastinating my book work, and have it caught up all the time. I slipped a bit at the end of the year, but for the most part, I feel I did well. I have made it a habit to get it done, and that makes all the difference. Changing your habits is how you change your life.
But this year, I felt I needed goals. I want something to work towards, something to give me the motivation to work hard, to be all I can be. I sat with my journal, and really couldn’t come up with much. In fact, it made me more frustrated the longer I pondered. Here’s what I ended up writing:
What are goals anyway? Is it just a wishlist of things to get done? A master plan for life? What if I don’t know what my goals are yet? What if I enjoy living life by the seat of my pants?
I don’t know what this life will bring-what this year will bring. How do I set goals in a place with no certainty? How does one set goals in a game with no rules?
If my goals are simply the ways I hope to change myself for the better, then aren’t they actually aspirations?
Can I choose the goal of having such a great life that I don’t need any goals? Can I trust the God of the Universe enough to stay motivated without having any said goals other than to just be myself?
I think that’s my true goal, to just be myself. No more worrying about the opinions of other people, because truly, they don’t matter. No more worrying about if what I said was taken the wrong way, or not understood correctly. No more worrying about hurting other people’s feelings, especially when they aren’t worried about hurting mine. Perhaps worrying is the thing I need to get rid of. All right, so I’ll be my true self, and stop worrying. There. Its set. Happy 2017!