I have seen a ton of posts on Facebook about testing all welfare recipients for drugs, and denying benefits to anyone who tests positive. I totally agree with this, for people without children. The problem is, the kids who have druggies for parents didn’t choose to live this way. They didn’t make the choice to do drugs, their parents did. I think this should also apply to alcoholics raising children. Its not fair to the kids.
But if people want to be able to deny benefits for people with children, we have to be ready to raise those children. How many kids will you take in?
The need for people to take foster children is great. I’ll be honest and tell you that I’ve thought about it, but I know how easily I get attached to beings, like dogs, cats, and children. I wouldn’t be able to give them up, to go back to a drug infested home, especially if there was abuse involved.
I would be open to adoption, but the cost of adopting children is ridiculous. What if we figured out a way to let families adopt children for a much lower cost? The children who need homes could have them, and people could afford to adopt. The children then grow up in a healthy environment, where they are loved, cared for, and go to school.
How can we fix this? The children are not the ones at fault. And the kids who grow up in those environments are some of the same kids who start doing drugs as teenagers. If drug use is normal, then the kids who grow up with that are much more likely to end up with the same addiction. When there is no hope for a future, the world is a very bleak place.
I would love to see a system where families could afford to adopt as many children as they want, as long as they can afford them and pass a credible background check. Yes, we’ll need more social workers. But the savings of welfare benefits to those who don’t deserve them will probably more than pay for the cost.
I don’t have a problem with welfare though, its there for a reason. They are honest hard working people who need a hand, and that’s okay. But one requirement of welfare should be that people have jobs or are looking for a job. If people can’t find a job, then maybe we can have jobs available, like cleaning the roadways of litter, cleaning up graffiti from public buildings, or any other job that we expect our public servants to do. But they need to be hard jobs to encourage people to find jobs they like and enjoy doing.
I also believe that people in prison need to be put to work doing something. If prison was a hard life, then maybe some of the people would stop re-offending. There are lazy people out there, people with the mentality that somehow, humanity owes them something. But the truth is, no one owes you anything. If you want it, you need to go out there and earn it!
We need people to be accountable for themselves. Our society has created an entire class of people who don’t think they have to work for themselves. Unless you are truly disabled, you need to work for yourself! You need to earn your own money! When we give people money for nothing, we are the enablers. We are the ones who let them get by with not being accountable. And if you can’t even take care of yourself, how can you take care of children?
This blog is my personal opinion, and I realize that many people will disagree with it. And that’s okay. But if you disagree, how do you think we can solve this problem? Children don’t deserve to live a life of neglect and abuse. I’m very open-minded and I would love to hear your differing opinion.