Its one of the most annoying things in the world to me: unsolicited advice. But its more than that really, its when people try to tell me what I should do.
What I should think.
What I should believe.
Why would anyone think they have a better strategy than me for living my own life?
Why would anyone think that the way I’m living my life could be improved if only I did what they said?
Or thought the way they think?
Or believe what they believe?
I think that each of us has a burning in our heart, put there by God, to do what is right for ourselves. I think that there is no other person who can possibly know everything in my heart, who can be a better “me” than I am right now.
Don’t get me wrong, I do ask for advice sometimes, and if I ask, then do please try to help me. But if I don’t ask, then why on earth would someone decide to just interrupt? Why would someone try to impose their thoughts and beliefs on my purpose?
I think that humans have a huge ego problem, where we think we know better than others. We think we’re the smart one. We think we’re the one with the answers. I feel that way sometimes too. But unless someone asks for my advice, or opinion, I try to keep it to myself. I don’t expect someone to give up their religion because I don’t agree with what they believe, but on that same note, don’t think you can change what I believe.
I don’t expect someone to change their opinions or political beliefs because I don’t agree with them, but don’t have your telemarketers call my house five times a day telling me how I should vote. I have stopped answering my phone when an unrecognized number calls, do you think they get the hint?
I believe that each of us needs to make up our own mind, and decide what to believe on our own. I don’t trust any of the commercials on television anymore, especially the political ones. I need to read about the candidates, and the measures, and decide for myself how I will vote. So stop calling me. Stop leaving fliers in my door. Stop trying to manipulate me into siding with you, because more than likely, I’ll do the opposite of what you keep harassing me to do. I don’t want your politics, I don’t want your religion, and I don’t want your manipulation. I just want to live my own life, doing what I believe is right, the way I believe it should be done. I have my own politics, my own religion, and my own mind full of my own opinions and my own beliefs. If I ever decide to change them, it will be because of my own reasons, and not because some telemarketer with a terrible accent told to me to vote yes or no. And seriously, how did you get my cell phone number?